Clairvoyants: Do my sisters wish me ill?
I feel like my sisters may be sending me the evil eye. Is this true?
Suggestion by T R
Why don’t you ask them? Seriously, intra-family squabbles can be remedied much more effectively by open, honest communication, perhaps with the help of a family counselor if needed. Asking supposed clairvoyants over the internet is only going to provide you with more disinformation and suspicion, and that will make things worse. If your sisters won’t talk to you openly and honestly about it and instead shut you out, then that’s their choice and you need to move on.
But you can relax about the “evil eye”, it has no power except for the power of suggestion it may have on the intended target who finds out about it. It’s just a myth. The only power your sisters have over you is the power you chose to give them.
Suggestion by AJ
well i think da best thing 2 do is 2 hv a little chat with them, on one hand if dey dont like u dat much then yes but on da other if dey do get along wiv u then no but the best thing 2 do is 2 ask them otherwise this could lead 2 a big problem. hope dis helps.
Suggestion by Deenie
I felt the same about my sisters..esp. one..since years ago she made a painting for me of me with an evil eye and lightning coming down on me. lol I think we should have done like TR said and TALKED!! She’s dead now..so there’s no chance of straightening it out. At least one of my other sisters and I have been talking a lot now.But, in those years ..I don’t think we were able to talk like we do now…and really communicate like we do now. If you’re going to get this straightened out..you just have to push through and find a way…before it’s too late. I still wish I had asked her why she drew that picture. At the time I thought it was “cool”. lol. I didn’t know what an evil eye was and didn’t understand the significance of the picture. Seems like somebody else would have clued me in! It’s called ..being naive and trusting!!!
What do you think? Answer below!
Am I a psychic/or clairvoyant or anything… seriously?
This is long,I tied to be as thorough as possible
Ok, So I always, since I was a little kid just felt as if I was something more, on a mental level…. not anything like smart just different, its hard to explain..like i have power or something But I want to know if I have psychic ability, I mean I know it’s not strong if I do but it’s just a lot of little things. Like DeJa Vus or be in situations where I can tell you EXACTLY whats about to happen. And I know everyone gets them, I just get them a lot and I stopped telling people because they were getting irritated with the frequency of them. Secondly it’s a lot of little things that I “predict” before they happen, like at the casino the other night I kept “thinking” about the numbers 564 in that order and was in my (crazy) head thinking its 456 not 564 but then I end up winning $ 564 dollars that night. Another thing, I went to the store for my aunt to get her some cigarettes and was thinking whats the difference between short and long cigarettes, and that was my thoughts for most of the ride, obviously not a smoker. and when I got to the gas station they only had shorts left… its just little things like that that happens. Another example is when I randomly decided to start looking up how long does a car transmission last, just out of curiosity because I just had got a car about 4 months prior, long behold my transmission went out the next time I drove that bad boy. One other time I can remember is when I was doing homework and I randomly stopped and thought, “why am I doing this class is cancelled tomorrow anyway” There was absolutely NO indication that my biology professor would email the class and tell us it was a death in the family and class is cancelled for the next day. And it was like an hour after I stopped my homework. Its just little things like that or I would know what song is on the radio before I get in the car, as do many people claim. And I almost always pick up the phone and check right before a text comes through and know that I got a text before my phone lights up vibrates makes a noise or gets a notification and I usually know who its from even if I’m not expecting a text. but its things like that or I would “know things before they happen” like my friend called and I said congrats on the award, she said “what award?” and later on that day she end up getting a surprise award banquet in her honer that I honestly knew nothing about and she thought, still thinks, that I was in on it but I really had no idea, it was only 8 people that planned it ans new about it and they tried to tell her I didn’t know. It just felt like she told me she got an award the day before and I forgot to congratulate her on it or something. But its little things. Oh yeah sorry for all the examples but I can tell when someone is coming with good or bad news to me and can generally tell how big of news it is. So does this sound like I have a gift? or just coincidence. I’ll accept both. I’m just starting to wonder more and more because there are too many coincidences that happen to me. Please help, preferably someone who knows their stuff.
Thanks for the feedback, to Kira, I know it is so weird but the thing is it happens to me ALL THE TIME! Thats why I started to think. This one time I just had a very very intense feeling my uncle was going to die and it came from no where. He was a healthy 52 year old man. I just had this gut feeling, so I called to check up everything was A OK and then two hours later sudden heart attack. Things like that make me wonder. All the examples were just a few things like this happen far to often.
To Crazy Dan, thanks for that I will look for stuff on it. I don’t necessarily think I can change the future just generally predict it you know? Its just really weird but when I think about it, the things I predict can be predicted by looking and observing things.
Suggestion by Kira
I would say that you are more perceptive to patterns in your environment, and are subconsciously able to calculate and extrapolate experiences in order to predict outcomes. (predicting how long a text response takes using previous experience with text, predicting song on the radio based on station it is set to, feeling something was planned for your friend based on past performance, etc…)
If you think you are psychic, I suggest writing down these intrusive thoughts, because right now what you are writing about here all seems to be hindsight, aka, “That’s so weird; I was just thinking of that!” Well we have countless thoughts throughout the day, and some of them are bound to connect with something that will happen. That doesn’t make us psychic. That is coincidence. However if you can weed through these thoughts and write down what feels important/odd/intrusive which then turn out to connect significantly to a future event, I believe you would have a possible case for extrasensory perception.
Suggestion by Crazy Dan
I mean I suppose everyone has “feelings” of future events.
Oddly I had several weird feelings of future events all of which became true. I began researching it as well because of fascination with things. I felt it was a bit too odd sometimes that something come true, especially really bad things. What I can gather is that you have something known as a “subconscious mind” which I suppose a lot of people do know of but perhaps never really given actual thoughts on. The fact is you had to “think” of all these things for it to have happened. There are several times in a week where I suddenly got this idea of a movie in my head, something I haven’t seen in a while, and suddenly I see it on tv. There are other times where I think of something like a song or something on the radio and suddenly hear it.
The problem is that it’s literally impossible for you to change or alter the future especially a future of someone else – like the death of the professors family – but no doubt it’s too odd of a coincident that at that particular time that somehow what you thought came true. So the question comes down to if what happens would have happened anyways without you having thought of it? Or does your thoughts have some influence on the matter?
So in all there are some deep research in the subconscious mind. The general theory is that you start finding or noticing things only when you feed your mind to believe to look for those things. For example, if you think you’re going to die of a heart attack, sometimes those fear may be true because you subconsciously do things to aid in you having the heart attack. Or here’s another crazy one I always had is the time 11:11. When I was a teenager somehow I always looked at the clock precisely at 11:11 and I thought it was a omen. That was until I somehow forgot about it and it never happened or occurred again.
There are several books out there that you could load up into your kindle or borrow at a library. Just look up subconscious thoughts and you should find some books on it. Really good introspection and something interesting I think.
Suggestion by Caligula
I think you’ve asked a really interesting question. I have a few suggestions that might help you decide for yourself whether you are psychic or clairvoyant, and then I’ll tell you my own beliefs.
I suggest that you start looking into what is called parapsychology. That’s a field of academic study into the kind of phenomena you believe you might be experiencing.
I suggest that you read this book: http://www.amazon.com/Mistakes-Were-Made-But-Not/dp/0156033909 (And no, despite the subtitle, I am not suggesting that you are foolish. Neither are the authors. They would believe you are mistaken, though.) The book is about some of the ways that human minds – all human minds – work, and how easy it is to misinterpret our experiences.
I also suggest that you read this book: http://www.amazon.com/Paranormal-Believes-They-Believe-Matters/dp/1616144912/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1388268090&sr=1-1 This author is looking at the ways people who believe in paranormal phenomena – like psychic phenomena, including clairvoyance – think differently from the ways people who use scientific methods think. He looks at a variety of paranormal phenomena, including parapsychology.
And if, after reading both books I suggested, you still think you’re psychic or clairvoyant (my guess is that if you spend time to read two books, you won’t just wonder any more. You’ll have a clear opinion), I suggest that you go over to http://www.randi.org/site/index.php/1m-challenge.html and consider working with the Randi Foundation to come up with a way to prove it, using the scientific method. You’ll have insight into how scientists think and into the kinds of objections they are likely to raise when you explain how you came to believe you are psychic or clairvoyant, and so you’ll be in a much better position to present your abilities in such a way that scientists (not including parapsychologists) might be convinced.
My own belief is that you are making extremely human mistakes. For example, you remember all of those times when events seemed to bear out some kind of knowledge you had before things happened, but you probably don’t remember the times when you are thinking of the number 762 but nothing related to that number ever happened. Everybody makes that mistake, because our brains are always looking for patterns that might help us predict events. When we come up with patterns that don’t work, there are no major consequences; but when we come up with patterns that do work, they can help us avoid bad things happening to us. Therefore our brains have evolved to “find” patterns when there really aren’t any.
I have come to that belief after believing strongly in psychic phenomena when I was a high school student, so I have some understanding of where you’re coming from. And no, I don’t think “I grew out of it, so I am more advanced than people who haven’t grown out of it yet.” Sometimes people start by believing A and then come to believe B. Some people start out by believing B and then come to believe A. And some people believe A or believe B and stick with those beliefs. All I can tell you is what beliefs I used to hold and what beliefs I have now.
I have found both books very helpful in understanding some of the things my mind does and the ways that people who are different from me think. I’ve read the first one twice, and I read the book that was the “first edition” of the second book before reading the second one. I think you might find them helpful, too, whether or not they cause you to believe the same things I do.
The people at the James Randi Educational Foundation will absolutely not believe that you are psychic. Period. But they are the kinds of people who constantly want to test their beliefs by trying to find ways that they might be wrong, and they will work with you to come up with a way *that you agree will work* to prove that you are psychic. They are a very respected organization, so if you are successful a lot of scientists will take you seriously; and the $ 1,000,000 wouldn’t hurt either. 🙂
Whether or not you actually read the books I have suggested, I wish you the best of luck in your search for the truth.
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