Please help me. I think I’m going crazy!?

Please help me. I think I’m going crazy!?
This is going to sound completely nuts, so just bare with me because I want help, not for people to laugh at me.

I’m 14 years old and I haven’t been able to sleep at night or be in a room alone without feeling scared for about 2 months now.

Why? I’ll tell you why but you’re just going to laugh and tell me to stop joking around.

Around 2 months ago I thought I saw a ghost. I told mum and she said she and her boyfriends ex had seen it too, and that it’s her boyfriends grandmother who passed away. Her boyfriend told me that she just likes to keep an eye on him and people that come into his life. I got really scared and mum told me that I wouldn’t see her again and that it will only happen once. At the time I completely believed them, but now that it’s been two months and I still can’t sleep at night or be in a room alone; afraid I’ll see it again, I’ve tried to convince myself that it’s all bull****. What’s even more ridiculous is my family actually believes this sort of crap. I don’t know what to believe anymore!! Me and mum have only recently moved in with her boyfriend.

Can anyone else believe I’m actually scared to death by a non-existent dead person?

I need help… Please. It’s disrupting my sleep because I’m scared to turn around and see a person standing there and I can’t look in mirrors without getting frightened anymore.

What is wrong with me? Please help. If anyone thinks this is funny, just don’t bother commenting.

Thanks.

Suggestion by TorchwoodFan
I have been through the exact same thing. I managed to get over it by just thinking “it can’t hurt me and it’s probably not real.” maybe you could talk to your doctor about it and they might refer you to a councillor who will help you to overcome this fear. You aren’t going crazy and you aren’t alone x

Suggestion by Special Kappa
I do not know what to tell you but even assuming that this ghost is real and there, apparently it doesn’t mean to do any harm so there is no reason to be scared. If I were you I would try to find it :D

Suggestion by John Elder
Your not crazy. It is not a ghost. There is a spirit world of angels and demons. The only way to not see the demons (that like to scare people) is to pray, and really mean it. Get on your knees and ask God to help you and protect you. If this doesn’t work you need to fast (go without food/water) for a day or two and keep praying.

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Please help me. I think I’m going crazy!?
This is going to sound completely nuts, so just bare with me because I want help, not for people to laugh at me.

I’m 14 years old and I haven’t been able to sleep at night or be in a room alone without feeling scared for about 2 months now.

Why? I’ll tell you why but you’re just going to laugh and tell me to stop joking around.

Around 2 months ago I thought I saw a ghost. I told mum and she said she and her boyfriends ex had seen it too, and that it’s her boyfriends grandmother who passed away. Her boyfriend told me that she just likes to keep an eye on him and people that come into his life. I got really scared and mum told me that I wouldn’t see her again and that it will only happen once. At the time I completely believed them, but now that it’s been two months and I still can’t sleep at night or be in a room alone; afraid I’ll see it again, I’ve tried to convince myself that it’s all bull****. What’s even more ridiculous is my family actually believes this sort of crap. I don’t know what to believe anymore!! Me and mum have only recently moved in with her boyfriend.

Can anyone else believe I’m actually scared to death by a non-existent dead person?

I need help… Please. It’s disrupting my sleep because I’m scared to turn around and see a person standing there and I can’t look in mirrors without getting frightened anymore.

What is wrong with me? Please help. If anyone thinks this is funny, just don’t bother commenting.

Thanks.
I don’t need people telling me I’m an idiot- I just need someone to help me believe it’s all a load of crap, because right now I don’t know what to think…
Thanks everyone for your support…
:)

xo

Suggestion by free spirit ☆☾♎ ‡
You have been slightly traumatized by this. Don’t be afraid it’s not real.

Suggestion by Oi Polloi!
well.. there real, nuff said!

Suggestion by Brittney
your not crazy, dont think about it. ghost are real, im not gonna lie. they cant hurt you and shes protecting you, you should feel safe.

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26 Responses to Please help me. I think I’m going crazy!?

  1. Tom Miskell December 17, 2013 at 3:13 pm #

    Spirits in general do not want to cause fear in the living so I doubt you will see the ghost again. I had a similar experience at about the same age as you and the best thing you can do is to make your room as unscary as possible.
    Get a cheap night light that will lighten your room just enough that it will help to stop your imagination running wild. Also don’t drink any drinks with caffien in such as coke, coffe, tea or any other fizzy drink as these stop you from sleeping and cause anxiety. When I stopped drinking these drinks I became tired at bedtimes and fell asleep very quickly so I had no time to worry, whereas when I drank caffien drinks I was restless and anxious and this is when I would start thinking horrible thoughts. So make sure you are tired at bedtime and trust me it will help. Once you get out of the cycle you will automatically forget about what happened.
    One more thing you can do to put your mind at ease is to buy a bunch of dried sage, it is a herb used in most cultures to get rid of spirits. You burn it and move around all corners of your room and it will clear any negative energy.
    Even if you don’t believe things like this it still seems to work.
    Hope this helped you out, best wishes Tom :)

  2. Cassandra Jackson December 17, 2013 at 3:17 pm #

    Since you are still young, having your mother and her boyfriend tell you that ghosts exist, even if you think they don’t, will still cause you to second guess yourself. If you want to prove to yourself that ghosts don’t exist, go on to youtube and look for the videos which prove that these shows with ghost hunters in are full of lies. I would recommend going to the ones about a show called most haunted. You can see people throwing stones and pretending that a ghost did it and all sorts, its incredible the lengths they went to to cheat you into believing this sort of stuff.

    I would also try finding a few episodes which Derren Brown made which prove that psychics and mediums are liars. He proves it in black and white in front of you, that they are just skilled at reading peoples faces and tiny tells…kind of like reading peoples faces in a game of poker.

    Lastly, realise that many people in the world believe in different things and even though they may try to convince you that some things are ghosts, or spiritual experiences, you need to realise that you should take EVERYTHING you see at face value and decide for yourself what it may or may have not been. There are events in everyone’s life which may seem strange, odd, or really incredible, but accrediting them to ghosts and spirits rather than investigating them is just something which idiots do.

    Remember, ghosts don’t exist.

    If you want to prove it to yourself, sit in a room, near the light switch, then ask if the ghost could appear to you again, as in visual. Make sure you say that any noises or motions are not good enough and you need a full apparition to prove to you that she is present. If nothing happens, which i am sure of, you have just proved to yourself that whatever happened 2 months ago, was just one of those odd events in life. If something does happen, then remember it is a nice old lady who wouldn’t harm a fly anyway.

  3. Kate December 17, 2013 at 3:50 pm #

    DON’T WORRY, SEE A THERAPIST….

  4. Adrianna December 17, 2013 at 4:30 pm #

    Its probably not a ghost, but a demon. Talk to a priest, and go in your room and say this “By the power of Christ I demand you to leave”, repaet that! I have had this problem before, when i was like 12, I am 14 now too. But it will leave.

  5. David December 17, 2013 at 5:14 pm #

    My dad’s a psychiatrist and I’ve learned that usually about the age of 16, maybe younger, women have a hormone released that can sometimes stress out the body, and raise phobias, rumors seem more believable and superstitions scare the mind, it could be that or stress from school

  6. shadowhydra@rocketmail.com December 17, 2013 at 5:42 pm #

    Nothing is wrong with you. You’re just experiencing paranoia. It doesn’t make you crazy. If anything, it makes you normal.

  7. Ryan December 17, 2013 at 6:28 pm #

    It is pretty funny But you got to remember there isnt such thing lol.. There is no evidence that they are real because there not and i doubt you did see it when you are always thinking about stuff like tht it makes u imagine tht things are there when there not it happend to me ages ago but you just got to remember they dont excist and it would help if your family didnt belive it and told u it isnt true lol

  8. Roo Sutherland December 17, 2013 at 7:19 pm #

    ummmmmmmmm PHYSIOLOGIST? PSYCHOTHERAPY?

  9. Coolie December 17, 2013 at 7:31 pm #

    It’s true what you are seeing – it really is her. And you have nothing to worry about since she has every intention just to keep an eye on you – like your mom’s boyfriend said.
    Just go about your life like you normally would ; there’s nothing to be afraid of.

  10. ~*Loved*~ December 17, 2013 at 7:47 pm #

    You are definitely scared and that is ok. It probably wasn’t a ghost. Most likely a trick of the light and it just happened to happen to him too. Don’t worry. Pray to God every night for comfort and that He will wrap his arms around you. I was scared of stuff like that forever and then I had a relationship with God and it went away. I’m about to cry just thinking about how stupid I was before that.

  11. Sharky December 17, 2013 at 8:05 pm #

    Same thing happened to me when i was about 9 but now i’m 12. This is gonna sound freaky but a ghost throw a stuffed dog at my head and i know it wasn’t anyone in my family. You just have to think that it won’t hurt you if you be a good person and don’t disturb it. It just wants you to know that their there.

  12. Harjinder L December 17, 2013 at 9:00 pm #

    I believe in ghost and have seen a few i wouldn’t worry the ghost does not sound very violent if the ghost was very violent i would be frightened.If you see the ghost again try talking to it you will feel better that’s what i did when i was little.

  13. tlalteutli December 17, 2013 at 9:18 pm #

    One I cant sleep with a mirror in my room and im 21 so im not one to laugh, but think of this way there are good ghost and bad seeing as the ghost is a grandmother of boyfriends ex and didn’t cause any harm the first time she came around there is no reason to believe she will come back and cause harm.

  14. Love me or Hate me December 17, 2013 at 10:16 pm #

    nothing is wrong with you sweetie. i’ve seen the ghost of my grandmother and she died when my mother was 6. im 21. never met her but i see her alot. ghosts wont hurt you. you just gotta relax. they know your scared and as long as they scare you, they will keep showing themselves. jus get you some tylenol pm and go to bed tonight. they cant hurt you

  15. Vilasi December 17, 2013 at 11:11 pm #

    sounds like a small case of post traumatic stress syndrome. The best thing to do is try to reassure yourself that it either doesn’t exist, or if that doesn’t work then maybe you can try to convince yourself that since it was a grandmothers ghost that it doesn’t want to harm you or something to that extent.

    It’s not that I believe in this stuff, but there is someone in my family who had an experience like that and those are some of the things they did.

  16. Caroline:) December 17, 2013 at 11:35 pm #

    omg that sounds very terrible. im sorry. i hate being scared. i dont know wat to do other than just talk to your mom and tell her that youre really scared and need to go to a shrink or something:/

  17. german December 18, 2013 at 12:33 am #

    first gurl!!!calm down!!!and PRAY!!!!plz pray!!!!just incase..(dis is comin from a person who does believe in spirits)get on ur knees and pray for that soul..cuz its not resting in piece…please do this..then…just have a picture of GOD beside your bed…then wenever you go to church…tell the pastor or father…watever you call the leader of your church..wats been happening…please do this…thnx..and besides nothing is wrong with you..this happend to one of my friends lil sister…she started seeing people in the mirrors for playing the wigy bored(idk how to spell it)…and they went to go talk to the pastor..and nutin has happend since..plz do this…

  18. viva la music December 18, 2013 at 1:21 am #

    Trust me, your not going crazy. Talk to your Mom and her boyfriend about it again and see what they say.

  19. D. December 18, 2013 at 1:50 am #

    Nothing is wrong with you…..Its freaky crap someone has told you that has you thinking about this. If its not in your beliefs then seriously dont worry about what this bf says…..Who even knows who he is? ~lol~ JK- Understand that some people believe in all kinds of crap you couldn’t even imagine right now. Be better than those who feel they need to bring others down so they dont appear to be crazy themselves. I doubt its his relative checking in on you. Lets not even get into that! Just know you are the only person that can change your mind whole heartedly-dont let anyone else take that from you. If you dont beliecve in that stuff then dont. You should feel better soon

  20. Candice December 18, 2013 at 2:25 am #

    Nothing is wrong with you..I would be scared to.. but just try to think of it like this, what if this lady was alive and you saw her in the hallway..would you be scared of her then?.. I believe in ghosts and I am not crazy..but not all ghosts are mean and evil..say a prayer and ask that this ghost find her way home.. not creepin around your house making you feel uncomfortable..Good luck.

  21. mazziso December 18, 2013 at 3:03 am #

    You need to get laid, have some company over

  22. sky December 18, 2013 at 3:07 am #

    awwwwwww…i totally understand and so should your mother…

    talk with her again and tell her how distressed you are…

    you definitely need and deserve someone that understands your fear…

    you are not an idiot…not at all…take care

  23. reagan no longer likes bob December 18, 2013 at 3:25 am #

    carry around a stick…and when you see her again hit her real hard…idk…ive seen a ghost before…but not long enough to hit it or capture it or nothin

    idek if u could hit it…but its worth a shot, eh?

  24. Matt December 18, 2013 at 3:48 am #

    Holy-(beep)!!! Now I’m scared too.

    Turn on the night-light in your room and leave the door a little bit open. Ghosts don’t like light.

  25. KAREN N December 18, 2013 at 4:18 am #

    Since you are still young, having your mother and her boyfriend tell you that ghosts exist, even if you think they don’t, will still cause you to second guess yourself. If you want to prove to yourself that ghosts don’t exist, go on to youtube and look for the videos which prove that these shows with ghost hunters in are full of lies. I would recommend going to the ones about a show called most haunted. You can see people throwing stones and pretending that a ghost did it and all sorts, its incredible the lengths they went to to cheat you into believing this sort of stuff.

    I would also try finding a few episodes which Derren Brown made which prove that psychics and mediums are liars. He proves it in black and white in front of you, that they are just skilled at reading peoples faces and tiny tells…kind of like reading peoples faces in a game of poker.

    Lastly, realise that many people in the world believe in different things and even though they may try to convince you that some things are ghosts, or spiritual experiences, you need to realise that you should take EVERYTHING you see at face value and decide for yourself what it may or may have not been. There are events in everyone’s life which may seem strange, odd, or really incredible, but accrediting them to ghosts and spirits rather than investigating them is just something which idiots do.

    Remember, ghosts don’t exist.

    If you want to prove it to yourself, sit in a room, near the light switch, then ask if the ghost could appear to you again, as in visual. Make sure you say that any noises or motions are not good enough and you need a full apparition to prove to you that she is present. If nothing happens, which i am sure of, you have just proved to yourself that whatever happened 2 months ago, was just one of those odd events in life. If something does happen, then remember it is a nice old lady who wouldn’t harm a fly anyway.

  26. Smile. =) December 18, 2013 at 4:40 am #

    Calm down, love…relax. Maybe your eyes were just playing tricks on you. Are you REALLY sure that you saw one? If you did…when you saw the ghost…did you get really cold all of the sudden? …Because ghost forms usually come in a ‘cold sudden breeze’ thing lol. But were there any electronics around (also when you saw the ghost) and if there was…did they stop working? …Ghosts use any kind of energy so that they can be seen in their ‘ghostly’ form. It’s okay…think about it…it’s been about TWO months now and NOTHING at all has happened to you.

    But I’d only be really scared if things started flying around without explanation…okay? You’re okay. Don’t worry. =D

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